Montessori believes that the primary role of teachers is a guide (director). We should observe the child carefully, followed by children walking down the things he can learn to band aids come in due course. 

Parents do the same, we have to remember that he is a guide, a observer, not a "teaching" people. My two children most often say is: "I will." Because they themselves learned by doing, and then the example mentioned earlier, my son operation math teaching aids, there are several The answer is 9, it was his discovery. Child's own discovery learning than adults to tell him good effect, but a few hundred times better! If your child tells you: "Mom, I will." You should put that as a compliment is, indicators of educational success on your behalf. On this point is concerned, we really need a spiritual reform, do not then their role as authority, but to retreat to the secret place, when a successful guide. 

In the Montessori kindergarten, you can see the real implementation of this educational philosophy. You will not hear the teacher shouted: "Stop fighting!" Instead of that, the teacher told the boy said softly: "Now is the time to calm down." I never thought before that they can be a teacher, because I feel the volume is too small, must not control the child. Did not think I could be a good Montessori teacher, this guide is just consistent with the image. Adult soft-spoken, soft-spoken child will follow: The more you shouted, the more the child shouted back, he would learn you. Do not forget, children are the best imitators.